Love in focus — for women who love women

The Lesbian Lens is a dedicated space for lesbians and WLW to connect with intention. Real profiles, conversation-first matching, and active moderation—for a safer, better experience.

  • Verified profiles & active moderation
  • Conversation-first matching (no gimmicks)
  • Community circles & low-pressure events
🔒 No free tiers. All memberships include full access—no upsells or paywalls. This helps keep out scammers and fakes.
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Built for the WLW community

Conversation-first matching

Prompts and vibe questions that spark real dialogue and highlight compatibility.

Verified profiles

Lightweight checks reduce catfishing and increase trust from day one.

Safety & moderation

Zero tolerance for harassment. In-app reporting and responsive moderation.

Events & circles

Connect beyond the feed with circles and low-pressure events.

How it works

  1. Create your account — use the button to continue to our secure sign up / sign in page.
  2. Choose a membership — four options, all with full access.
  3. Verify your profile — quick, lightweight verification to keep the community real.
  4. Start connecting — conversation-first matching, circles, and events.

Membership options — full access on every plan

No upsells. No paywalls. Just choose the commitment that fits you.

$1 referral plan

$1

Popular • Anti-scam

  • Full access (all features)
  • Refer 5 friends in 30 days → extends to 12 months total
  • If you don’t reach 5 in time, you can continue with any paid plan
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The $1 fee helps deter scammers and fakes.

How the $1 referral plan works

  1. Choose the $1 referral plan during registration.
  2. Collect the emails of your five referrals and wait for them to register.
  3. After all five have registered, email us via the contact form and provide the 5 email addresses.  We'll extend your membership to 12 months.
  4. If you don’t reach 5 in time, simply continue with any standard paid plan—still full access, no upsells.

Real stories, real dates

“It felt like a space where my identity wasn’t an afterthought.”

— Maya, Seattle

“Better conversations in week one than months elsewhere.”

— Jess & Rowan, Boston

“Circles and events made it easy to meet IRL.”

— Alicia, Austin

Why we don’t offer free tiers

Protecting our community

Free tiers attract bots, scammers, and fake accounts. By requiring even a small paid commitment, we dramatically reduce fake profiles and keep The Lesbian Lens safer and more respectful.

Respect for your time

You deserve an experience where members are intentional. Paid memberships show that everyone here is serious about connecting—whether for friendship, dating, or long-term love.

Fair and simple

All plans unlock the same full access. There are no upsells, no gated features, and no endless nudges to upgrade—just a straightforward community built for women who love women.

FAQ

Is there a free plan?

No. To protect our community from scammers and fakes, there are no free tiers. All memberships include full access with no paywalls.

How does the $1 referral plan work?

Pick the $1 option at registration. You’ll have 30 days to refer five new members using your link. If you hit five, your membership extends to 12 months total. If not, you can continue with any paid option.

What does “full access” include?

Everything—matching, messaging, circles, events, and future features. No upsells.

Do you verify profiles?

Yes—lightweight selfie checks and active moderation reduce fakes and harassment.